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Walking Away From Love!

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Today I walk away!  Amos 3:3 3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed? a·gree discussed or negotiated and then accepted by all parties. Lately I have been getting this scripture alot. Well I have to sit back and really ask myself that. Can two people walk together if except they be agreed? BEcause they cant walk together if they dont agree but they can walk together if they do agree. Mea ning both parties have to want it. Not by force yet by really wanting it. If your the only one who really wants something well then i guess then you dont agree at all but you disagree. dis·a·gree have or express a different opinion. Meaning you are going to have to walk down a different path. Sometimes it sad when its something you really wanted to share with someone but they dont want to share it with you but how can you walk a vision with someone who doesnt want the same vision as you. You cant and so you go down a new path to a new vision. No matter how hard it may hurt to let g...

I Hate Divorce

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I Hate Divorce Malachi 2:16 16  For I hate  [ b ] divorce,” says the  Lord , the God of Israel, “and  [ c ] him who covers his garment with  [ d ] wrong,” says the  Lord  of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” I hate divorce I never and still dont want to get one but im getting a divorce. I want to be here but im the only one. So what do you do how can two walk together unless they agree. Amos 3:3 I cant work on building alone. Admitting Defeat. I can conquer anything i put my mind to but this is just something I cant. I can pass college, I can work hard, I can travel, I can do anything but this. I held on as long as i could and admitted 2 weeks into my marriage that i made error. But i still tried to hold on and see if i could make it work and i tried and i tried. And its still not working, Not because I dont love its just I want a house, family, to be guided, respect, protection and support.I ...

Are You Husband Material Or Nah?

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Husband Material ma·te·ri·al the matter from which a thing is or can be made. So you want to be a husband! What kind of material are you made of? I did this same blog for woman. No matter if your a man or a woman if your going to get married marriage still comes with responsibilities. And if your not ready to take on those responsibilities how are your ready for marriage? The first things is first can you consider yourself a man? Just because you have become a certain age does not make you a man. It is the qualities you possess and the responsibility you take on. Just as the Lord had created the woman to be a help yet a help is suppose to help someone who is doing something. Adam when he was created God put him to work and then created a woman to help him in their home. He was the lead of his household?Are you loving towards your wife? Do you provide? There is an order in which God originally made the home so are your husband material? If your not you need to pray and ask Go...

Love is a Gift

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Love is a Gift John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Love is a gift and gifts are given. You can't force love. I can't make you love me if you don't. How? God never says he will force you to love him. Yet you have to be willing to give love to him. Love is to be mutual. Sometimes its not because sometimes we love those who won't love us back. Yet God does that daily and still loves. He still gives his love. Because gifts are given and love is one of those gifts that is given even when you don't deserve a gift. Love can open the eyes of the blind, love can heal all wounds. Everyone is looking for love. So when you have love Cherish it. Hold on to that gift of love. Dont take the one or ones you love forgranted because oneday they might not be there when you go looking for their love

Desperate for Love

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 I dont have to beg for his love because he gave it to me! beg ask (someone) earnestly or humbly for something. John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. I have begged and pleaded for love almost my whole life. I begged in my cry's, i begged in my running away, i begged in my cutting, i begged in my selling myself, i begged in my promiscuity, my HEART SCREAMED OUT LOVE ME please! I begged and i pleaded.... I pleaded and I begged. Yet God just gave me love without even asking. He gave his son Jesus to die for me. As soon as i was ready to receive his love he just gave it to me i didn't have to plead i didnt have to beg. Its like the prodigal when he came home he should have had to beg his father to come home but he didnt he just let him home..he didnt have to plead or beg the father just gave him love! ...

I still love you

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I still love you 1 Corinthians 13:8 8 Love never ends. Still: even now (or then) as formerly. Love never ends. Have you ever been in love before and the person you loved separated from you? Yet the feelings didnt fade they stayed. Your relationship may have ended but your love for that person never died. It stayed. Even through you faced hard times together. Your feelings never went anywhere. You still miss those moments with them or the touch of their hand or their kiss or their laugh. or their voice. You still love them they may have continued life but that doesnt mean your heart hadnt paused from being in love. life went on but i still love you. When someone loves you nothing changes that  change 1 . make or become different. 1 Corinthians 13:8 8  Love never ends. When someone loves you love never changes through the good bad the happy the sad. IT doesnt matter what you go through ...

I think you love me..but idk

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You know I love you.. Do I? John 21:15 15  When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter,  “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” “Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.”Jesus said,  “Feed my lambs.” It's one thing to say you love someone its another to actually love someone. Ive had many people say they love me over the years but love is something you do not just say.  So as much as they said they loved me it didnt matter because their do was not showing love. But you know i love you ummm no i dont actually. I dont know that you love me at all. I have no security in knowing. Nothing says hey i love you and actually makes me believe it. Love is an Action 1 Corinthians 13: 4  Love is patient,  love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.   5  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,  it is not easily angered,  it keeps no record of wrongs.   6...