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Selfish Life Lessons

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Someone elses Selfishness effected my life. Philippians 2:3 Philippians 2:3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves Ive done some pretty selfish stuff in my life. I can say that I learned from my mistakes. And i probably will do more selfish stuff in life but i pray God correct me when im wrong. Yet one thing i know is when someone does something selfish it can destroy you. I think that taught me my biggest lesson this year in life about being selfish because you learn from that pain that you dont want anyone else to have that same pain you had to suffer through from someone else selfish behavior. Its still effecting me now but I wont be like that. It taught me to never hurt someone in that same manner. I want to be better than that.I dont want to be bitter mad or even angry. I wanna grow from the selfishness of someone else that effected my life. I wont do to someone else wha...
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I dont Feel Like Loving You

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Love is not a feeling. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Being in love hard. I know first hand. Love is a sacrifice so a sacrifice something is given up. The bible says in John 3:16 for God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son. That whosoever believes in him should not perish but have ever lasting life. He gave son and his son went to the cross to bear the sins of the world. Jesus asked before he died to take this cup from him. But he had to be the sacrifice. Sometimes love loves even when your pissed and angry and no longer want to deal. Love loves even when you have to give up something. Love loves even when its hard to love. And that ...
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Jealousy

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The Idea of Being Replaced  2 Corinthians 11:2 2  I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband,  to Christ, so that I might present you  as a pure virgin to him. Replace : to take the place of especially as a substitute or successor No one likes to think they can just be replaced! Like i love hearing scriptures  Luke 12:7   Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered.   Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows. Knowing that your one of a kind and there is no one like you. Or how Jacob loved rachael and no one could ever take her place. She was what he wanted.When you fall in love with someone the thought of them loving someone else is scary. Not the thought of them having other people in their life but the thought of someone taking the place you hold.Like i am your husband I am your wife. I dont want to be an ex husband or ex wife. Because someone filled my shoes because you traded ...
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Shes One of A Kind

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What made her so Different and Incomparable! dif·fer·ent not the same as another or each other; unlike in nature, form, or quality. Ruth 2:8-11 8 Then said Boaz unto Ruth, Hearest thou not, my daughter? Go not to glean in another field, neither go from hence, but abide here fast by my maidens: 9 Let thine eyes be on the field that they do reap, and go thou after them: have I not charged the young men that they shall not touch thee? and when thou art athirst, go unto the vessels, and drink of that which the young men have drawn. 10 Then she fell on her face, and bowed herself to the ground, and said unto him, Why have I found grace in thine eyes, that thou shouldest take knowledge of me, seeing I am a stranger? 11 And Boaz answered and said unto her, It hath fully been shewed me, all that thou hast done unto thy mother in law since the death of thine husband: and how thou hast left thy father and thy mother, and the land of thy nativity, and art come unto a people which th...
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Is it worth it?

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Pick your battles!! Proverbs 25:24 24 Better to live on a corner of the roof     than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Pick: choose (someone or something) from a number of alternatives, typically after careful thought. Sometimes you have to ask yourself is what your trying to argue about even that serious? Sometimes you have to learn to pick your battles. Think to yourself is this worth losing someone over. Think if tomorrow never came would that argument be something to say it was even worth it. Life is short!! Don't live a life full of regret!! Don't cause misery over things that are petty. Yes there are things that are worth bringing up. Yet there are somethings that are far from worth it. Use discernment if that someone died tomorrow would what your about to start an argument about even worth it?Im just saying pick your battles wisely!
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I have No Faith In You faith complete trust or confidence in someone or something. Hebrews 11:1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen Its hard having faith sometimes. Exspecially if you have been failed by someone that you had faith in. The moments where you went to put your faith in them they let you down again and again hoping maybe they give you a reason to prove you wrong but they didnt prove you right.Sometimes you just want to trust someone with your life knowing that even when you dont know whats going on they will make sure they got you and everythings okay but its hard when you know if you dont take care of you that the person who u want to have faith in will allow you to fall
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Dont Let Me Sell You a FairyTale

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Don't let me sell you a fairy tale :My marriage isnt perfect! Proverbs 14:5 An honest witness does not deceive, but a false witness pours out lies. Fairy Tale a fabricated story, especially one intended to deceive. I speak highly of my husband and Our Relationship!But my relationship is not perfect. Let me tell you it hasn't always been this way. I use to be a bad girlfriend! I wasnt nice to my husband at all. He took me back twice in a span of 7 years. OH and when we went to get married he left me in fear and i had to cancel my wedding and left me paying for my condo alone which my budget couldnt afford it so it messed me up with my bills.No my marriage is not no perfect marriage were we get along everyday. Somedays I want to leave and some days he does to! I know alot of people sell people lies and I wont do that. I have a real marriage  but it has real ups and downs as well!
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