I Already Knew He Was Cheating!

I knew he was cheating
Hebrews 4:13
13 And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.
Since I was younger God always gave me dreams. We all have dreams but these dreams the ones that feel real are the ones that I have always had to worry about because the end up coming true being a warning from God. So when he cheated he didnt have to tell me God already told me. Its not like he didnt see him being unfaithful to me. He could hide it all he wanted from me but not from God. Why would God want to lie to me he's a God of truth. So though it hurt that God was telling me the truth what hurt even worst was I knew and he still lied and tried to make it seem like I was the one being crazy


Confronting the cheating
Luke 17:3
3 Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
Confront:face up to and deal with (a problem or difficult situation).
I confronted the issue. I didnt confront the female because I doubt she knew about me. I talked to him face to face. His reply was that he was done. He would have kept leading me down this lie. I hate confronting things because people never change when they tell them how you hurt them. Or to make some changes to make things a little easier on you they dont care. They dont care how they hurt you how the effect your life about your pain. The dont ever want to say they are sorry. That same night I had made up my mind that id forgive him if he apologized and stopped cheating on me but he didnt. He kept cheating


The truth hurts: he never loved me

Luke 8:17

17 For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open.

I'm not going to lie. The truth hurts. When believing a lie to find out the truth it stings . you just know you were not worth the truth. Do I believe that he ever loved me no because he's a liar. I can't believe anything he has to say because he lies. I'm not worth the truth to him. Because when i find out the truth it always goes back to him being a liar. So from the moments he first said i love you i cant believe he ever loved me. he's a liar I'll never believe him.


He's going to admit that he cheated

1 John 1:9 

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.


Hes going to admit that he cheated. The reality is he lied and i already knew. But hes going to makeva confession. Because to make things right the truth has to come out. So he has to confess. The only thing is can you forgive a cheater and will the lie ever allow you to trust him? Will you be able to move forward

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