I love my relationship

My man constantly treats me good

Ephesians 5:25

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

con·stant : happening all the time or very often over a period of time
: staying the same : not changing
: always loyal

Im not saying hes perfect and we dont have bad days. But 95% of the time the way he treats me so well. The way he understands me. The way he talks to me his words are so sweet. The way that if hes mad at me he will let me know that he needs time alone so he doesnt saying anything that will hurt me. He cares about hurting my feelings even when his feelings are hurt. He protects me. He hates when people treat me bad. It hurts him. The good way he treats me is constant. Im very grateful for that because ive had "so called love" that love was painful and never consistent.



My ex showed no type love

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

I love the relationship im in now im happy. My last relationship left me in a constant depression. He never wanted to call but wondered why i was upset. He didnt have time to spend time. He didnt talk to me kindly. He always blamed me for everything and never took responsibility for his actions. We never went out on dates. Constantly lying to me. He come see me and stop talking to me for 3 months at a time. Im more ashamed to call him my ex and say i wasted 3 years of my life fighting to fix what he didnt want to fix cuz even in my trying he always sad my try was never good enough. My man now calls me shows me so much love. Making sacrafices to love me.is understanding. Doesnt blame me for everything. Is forgiving. Hes faithful tells the truth.willing to be the man i need in my life. Loves me flaw and all. So im never looking back at one point i want to marry my ex but who wants to marry misery. I have a happy good love now.


Happily in love

Hosea 3:3 And I said unto her, Thou shalt abide for me many days; thou shalt not play the harlot, and thou shalt not be for another man: so will I also be for thee.

At one point i didnt believe love existed until i meet him. I was young a dumb searching for love. Doing things i shouldnt be doing with men i shouldnt be doing it with. Then i meet him and  he loved me. He loved me past my body. He loved those inner places no one else saw. He loved my broken places.which opened my eyes to love. To go from not believing in love to being so much in love and happy to be in love its such a change because he is amazing and everything i could ever ask for. Im In love and happy

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