He doesn't love you

He doesn't love you

Genesis 29:31
When the LORD saw that Leah was not loved, he enabled her to conceive, but Rachel remained childless.

Its a hard pill to swallow when the person you love doesn't love you back. You can't force them to. You can't beg plead nothing will change how they feel so stop trying your embarrassing yourself.. He doesn't love you

He doesnt love you because He loves me

Genesis 29:18

18 Now Jacob loved Rachel; so he said, “I will serve you seven years for Rachel your younger daughter.”

He doesn't love you because he loves me. Jacob loved Rachel and because he loved Rachel he didn't
love Leah . his heart was already filled. She was everything his heart desired. He loved her so much.'


You cant become Someones Rachel if someones already rachel


Matthew 10:30 But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.



Do you know how unique we are? We are very unique. Rachel was loved and there was something special about her that JAcob loved. When someone loves you they love you. You have this uniqueness about you that they cant find in anyone else.
Song of Solomon 4:1-5
1 Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves' eyes within thy locks: thyhair is as a flock of goats, that appear from mount Gilead.2 Thy teeth are like a flock of sheep that are even shorn, which came up from the washing; whereof every one bear twins, and none is barren among them.3 Thy lips are like a thread of scarlet, and thy speech is comely: thy temples are like a piece of a pomegranate within thy locks.4 Thy neck is like the tower of David builded for an armoury, whereon there hang a thousand bucklers, all shields of mighty men.5 Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins, which feed among the lilies.
There were specific things about her that he loved. Solomon expressed the way he loved each of these things. When you love someone you know them in through an deep intimacy. Not just on the  surface but you took the time to get to know them. Spending moments with them. People dont understand sometimes your relationship and why someone loves you as much as they do but they dont know the moments youve shared and built together. To share this love you do. How you make this person feel inside.



Give up trying to be me (iam his Rachel )




 Genesis 29:34 And she conceived again, and bare a son; and said, Now this time will my husband be joined unto me, because I have born him three sons: therefore was his name called Levi.
35 And she conceived again, and bare a son: and she said, Now will I praise theLord: therefore she called his name Judah; and left bearing.


At some point leah gave up. She would never be rachel. Jacob loved rachel and she had his heart. So in the end you cant force anyone to love you. They have to love you. They have to want to be there. you have to be their choice. If your not their choice stop fighting to be something your not because you wont win. Because at the end of the day he doesnt love you. He loves me I am Rachel.

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