Building Healthy Relationships :Regaining Trust!
Once Trust Is Broken Its Hard to Get it Back
Trust And Relationships!
Proverbs 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
Trust a man or a woman in a relationship should have trust. Trust to know he or she is going to go out and do the right thing. That he or she wont come home to another man or woman laying next to their husband/wife. They should know that this man/woman loves me. And thats it? Are you giving your partner reasons do doubt you? Some people have jealousy without you giving them any reason. Some have reason to be jealous because instead of giving them reason to trust you you gave them reason to not. Trust comes from your actions! And its hard to have a relationship with no trust!
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Building Trust in a relationship!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.11 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Have you ever played that game where your partner stands behind you and you fall back and they catch you. Then you switch and your partner does the same.Its building your trust for one another knowing your partner has your back. What doesnt help build trust is when your partner thinks you will have there back and each time they think you will catch them they fall on there back. How are you a partner if your not helping your partner! If your partner has your back you need to have theirs that is a relationship it is not one sided!! She needs you just as much as you need her. And her needs yo u just as much as you need him. So when you say your going to do something do it. If you say you want to be there be there. If you say youll pick up the kids pick up the kids if you say youll make dinner make dinner. ITs a trust issue and doing things that show your trust worthy can build the trust!
Regained Trust !!!!
re·gain
Trust is a hard thing to get back once it is lost. I bet hosea had a hard time trusting his wife after she did the things she did to him. Yet he took her back as his wife. That didn't mean he wasnt nervous or afraid she wouldnt do as she once did. Yet he was willing to let her back in so he could learn to trust her again. It was hard and trust is always hard. Its not hopeless once lost it can be regained back if you work on being trust worthy! And show the person that you are going to do the right thing by them!
Colossians 3:9-10
Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator.
Trust gets destroyed by actions, lies, and secrets. Doing things in which will break someones trust in you. Once trust is destroyed its hard to get back. The person may take things away from you privileges in which they don't think you deserve in their life because they don't trust you to do the right thing. Why should I give you this or these opportunities if I cannot not trust you to do the right thing. People want to know that your trust worthy and capable to do right by them. Like if im your friend can i leave 20 dollars on the table walk away and it still be there when i get back. Can i know that your telling me the truth and not a lie because you want to do right by me even in the truth hurts. Can i know your not holding secrets from me. I want to know that I an trust you. Yet once trust is destroyed its hard to get back!
Trust And Relationships!
Proverbs 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
Trust a man or a woman in a relationship should have trust. Trust to know he or she is going to go out and do the right thing. That he or she wont come home to another man or woman laying next to their husband/wife. They should know that this man/woman loves me. And thats it? Are you giving your partner reasons do doubt you? Some people have jealousy without you giving them any reason. Some have reason to be jealous because instead of giving them reason to trust you you gave them reason to not. Trust comes from your actions! And its hard to have a relationship with no trust!
Building Trust in a relationship!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.11 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Have you ever played that game where your partner stands behind you and you fall back and they catch you. Then you switch and your partner does the same.Its building your trust for one another knowing your partner has your back. What doesnt help build trust is when your partner thinks you will have there back and each time they think you will catch them they fall on there back. How are you a partner if your not helping your partner! If your partner has your back you need to have theirs that is a relationship it is not one sided!! She needs you just as much as you need her. And her needs yo u just as much as you need him. So when you say your going to do something do it. If you say you want to be there be there. If you say youll pick up the kids pick up the kids if you say youll make dinner make dinner. ITs a trust issue and doing things that show your trust worthy can build the trust!
Regained Trust !!!!
Hosea 3:3
Then I told her, “You are to live with me many days; you must not be a prostitute or be intimate with any man, and I will behave the same way toward you.”
re·gain- obtain possession or use of (something) again after losing it.
Trust is a hard thing to get back once it is lost. I bet hosea had a hard time trusting his wife after she did the things she did to him. Yet he took her back as his wife. That didn't mean he wasnt nervous or afraid she wouldnt do as she once did. Yet he was willing to let her back in so he could learn to trust her again. It was hard and trust is always hard. Its not hopeless once lost it can be regained back if you work on being trust worthy! And show the person that you are going to do the right thing by them!
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