Building healthy relationships: Learning to be a we

Building Healthy:We can help sharpen each other

As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend." Proverbs 27:17

Sharpen: improve or cause to improve.

Iron sharpens iron when you put the two together it causes them to improve. Have you ever had a friend who you help build each other up you dont just help them but they help you. Its not a selfish matter its a helping build each other up. Its team work matter. Iron sharpens iron. We can make each other better.we can help sharpen each other


Building healthy Relationships : Letting go of past hurts

Leviticus 19:18
18 You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.

grudge

a persistent feeling of ill will or resentment resulting from a past insult or injury.

You cannot build up healthy relationships if you have a grudge. The purpose is to build is to grow but having a grudge does not allow you to grow it hinders a relationship. Healthy relationships need constant true  forgiveness(forgiving and forgetting forgiveness). Topped with constant love. Doesn't mean you allow the person to keep hurting you n the same manner address what the person is doing to hurt you they dont always hear you and sometimes will get offended but maybe one day they will change.  Sometimes people dont know they are hurting you because you dont address it



Building healthy relationships: you have to keep pursing

Ruth 2:5 Then said Boaz unto his servant that was set over the reapers, Whose damsel is this?

Pursue:try to get someone or something.

You cant just stop pursing a relationship once you get the man or woman you want. Buidling anything takes time and effort. So if you think well I want a relationship but dont take time for it  going to fall apart. You have to keep getting to know the person keep taking time keep dating them even Building healthy relationships: you have to keep pursing

Building healthy relationships: you have to keep pursing

Ruth 2:5 Then said Boaz unto his servant that was set over the reapers, Whose damsel is this?

Pursue:try to get someone or something.

You cant just stop pursing a relationship once you get the man or woman you want. Buidling anything takes time and effort. So if you think well I want a relationship but dont take time for it  going to fall apart. You have to keep getting to know the person keep taking time keep dating them even when married you have to keep going on dates. Relationships will die if you dont keep pursinging to having the relationship.




.
Building healthy relationships: you have to keep pursing

Ruth 2:5 Then said Boaz unto his servant that was set over the reapers, Whose damsel is this?

Pursue:try to get someone or something.

You cant just stop pursing a relationship once you get the man or woman you want. Buidling anything takes time and effort. So if you think well I want a relationship but dont take time for it  going to fall apart. You have to keep getting to know the person keep taking time keep dating them even when married you have to keep going on dates. Relationships will die if you dont keep pursinging to having the relationship.



Building healthy relationship: Means making changes to be a you to a we

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.

11 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?

When your use to being alone you its hard to get use to someone else. Yes two are better than one but you have to get use to being a two. When adam got eve and eve sinner the both went down for the sin. It wasnt just adam anymore it was adam and eve. You cant just think of yourself and your own needs or do things the way you have always done them but you do them as a we. You learn your partners strengths weaknesses help build each other you compromise work as a team. Its no longer just you so learn to Change your me to a we

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Covenant

I dont Feel Like Loving You