Stay Faithful Or Stay Single!

How Can I trust A Cheater?

John 8:4 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.

What can someone really say when they are caught in the act of cheating? How do they really feel inside? How long? There are a million and one questions? How much feelings does the other girl/guy have for you? Are your feelings for them the same? Were you in love and if you say no how do i know you werent really catching feelings? Did you really even love me?Or where you planning a life with them? How long has this been going on? Do they know about me? Were you really serious about me? Or was i just a same because you have another person? Theres no way you really loved me? What about us?Honestly how can we get past this? Because I dont even know if you ever really loved me? Honesty i don't believe there was ever really anything between us besides the other person you decided to mess with! So in all honesty this was never real!

I wasn't putting out!


 put out
When a female dispenses her sexual favors

 1 Corinthians 7:3-6
2-6 Certainly—but only within a certain context. It’s good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights.” Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it’s for the purposes of prayer and fasting—but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it. I’m not, understand, commanding these periods of abstinence—only providing my best counsel if you should choose them.

 Honestly I dont have to put out if their is no ring  on my finger and no minister
 to say you are now husband and wife! Cheating at any cost is cheating and gives no one excuse to cheat if they dont want to marry you. Welp im sorry if your not committed to me  before God why do i have to give up my goods? Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Id love to honor my marriage bed oneday and be able to fulfill the desires of my husband but it will be my husband!  My body is not for little boys who don't know what commitment is and who just want to fulfill their own sexual desires. I am more than just my body i am more than rubies and  i have value! I dont see anything wrong with sex i just want it to be with my husband!
I am Single because I don't want to be Cheated on!

Proverbs 20:6

6 Many a man proclaims his own steadfast love,
    but a faithful man who can find?

stead·fast resolutely or dutifully firm and unwavering.

 I remember knocking on the door who is it she said. My heart sank calmly i stated you must be his girlfriend. She said yes! Some relationships can survive after cheating. I don't know if i can do that. Many men say they have love that is firm and unwavering when it starts. Yet their is love is wavering and they cheat! Woman do this to! Yet proclaim that you love and your love is real and that really loved when you were not faithful to that love. When you weren't true. I can't believe that someone who cheated will be real to me. Will ever love me. Will ever do right by me or my family. I can't protect myself from being cheated on but if i have to not have kids with anyone i will protect them from the pain of their daddy ever having an affair on me so they never have to get hurt. I dont want to see their pain! Because i know that pain. I am single because i dont want to get cheated on! Because many men proclaim a unwavering love until you find them in bed with another person! 


He is All Mine and I am All His! 

Song of Solomon 2:16

16 My beloved is mine, and I am his: he feedeth among the lilies.

To not worry about cheating to know your beloved is yours and you are his. TO know you have his heart to know that he wants a family with you to know she wants only ot be with you. No side guy no side girl. Yet a real relationship where you know he's going to make it home at night. Knowing she's not with any other guy that your hearts long after each other. Feeling like the world can't come inbetween the love you share no matter how hard the try. Not having to worry about cheating. Not getting your heart broken. Honestly Stay faithful or stay single!

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