Are you Ready to Be Married?

 Are you Ready to Be Married?


 Matthew 21:8 Then saith he to his servants, The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy.

Once all your planning of the wedding is done and you have gotten what you want as your ultimate wedding! All that needs to be done is the man and the woman to come together to become husband and
wife! To think that this is a wonderful day that two people become one before God. That they take vows to stand infront of God and proclaim to live life as examples of how Christ (groom) died for his Church ( Bride).Ephesians Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Are you ready to be married. Woman are you ready to submit to your husband as the Church submits to Christ?Ephesians 5:22-3322 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.Are you ready to be married?


A Marriage Filled With Love
Song of Solomon 4:7 
You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.

 filled:become an overwhelming presence in.

 Yes i would love to be married! Yet I am not ready for marriage if i have to suffer through any type of verbal,mental, or physical abuse. I want a healthy relationship! A relationship that is loving. No it doent have to be perfect without flaws and arguments. Yet it has to have compromise and conflict resolution. A relationship filled with real forgiveness because i am really flawed. A relationship where i dont have to fight for someone to love me. Because Ive had to fight for someone to love me my whole life. Love has never been something just easily given to me! Yes id love to be married but not if my marriage isn't filled with love!
                                                Not if I will be Kicked Out !


2 Samuel 13:17 Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her.
I want to get married but not if ill ever be threated to be kicked out or kicked out! The first time i got kicked out was at 13 for having sex! I had seen my parent change partners so many times how dare they tell me not to have sex lol.. thats a joke! The story was told that i ran away but my parent told me if i think im big bad a grown leave. So i did! I left thats not running away i was told i could leave. Then when i got back well lets just say ive never lived perminatly with my parent ever again! I lived with my other parent for a while but their anger and abusive ways well that was to much for me the school called dss from the bruises left on my body. Until Grandma's house! Yet how should a child act knowing she's not wanted and there was no changing my mind the damage was already done. The abuse the anger the crazy life styles i had already seen it. And everyone can say she was a bad child who gave her grandmother hell but no one cared how i felt....this was not suppose to be my life!!!!!! I was only a child!!!! If they really cared they would have protected me. I wont even have kids unless i know ill have a husband and my kids will get love and cared for in a healthy manner. ITs called selflessness! Ive switched homes programs group homes jails lived in crack houses, random guys homes when i ran away. The guy i wanted to marry kicked me out to and triggered my fear of when it all started at 13 and my reaction was so bad from the once again rejection.I don't care i will never live with anyone under another persons lease or have no job enough to support myself because I WILL NEVER HEAR THE WORDS GET OUT MY HOUSE EVER AGAIN!
If you don't have anytime to really enjoy life with me

Ecclesiastes 3:1

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:



I want to be married but i dont want to be married if my husband has no time for me. I want to be able to enjoy my family enjoy my husband. To do fun things. To go out walks in the park to the beach to walk the dog. Enjoy the vacations road trips i want us to be bestfriends. To enjoy moments building and growing. See i want memories! To do Gods will together. It will be nice that knowing that there is a time to ever purpose and that my husband made time for me. That he made time for our family. That we had tons of fun times together!!! I just don't want to be married just to be married! Just to say im fulfilling some part of lifes dutys but for love.  Enjoy time!  If thats what I am getting then I am ready to be married. It is time! 

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