Wife Material

Wife Material 

ma·te·ri·al

the matter from which a thing is or can be made.

So you think your made out of everything you need to become a wife. Tons a females, young ladies, older woman, want to be wives. They believe that they have the qualities that it takes to become a wife. Yet being a wife is not just about looking pretty, having a wedding or a nice looking ring on your finger. There is more to being a wife. God made a wife for Adam because he needed a help meet someone who would help him through out life. So first thing first are you any help? If you can't even help yourself the answer is no your not ready to be a wife. You still need growth. Just because your not there yet doesnt mean you wont get there so ask God to teach you. There are certain qualities that men who are looking for wives are looking for do you hold those quailities? What type of material are you made of? Can he say that is bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh. Or will he say no those are far from good qualities. I once had a boyfriend tell me man you get that from me just joking. It was a quality in me that he had that he liked. He knew i was hard working and dedicated. Just as Adam knew Eve was his bone. So what qualities do you have can you cook? Clean? would you be a good mom? Could you hold down a house hold? Do you have your own life outside of a man because even the proverbs 31 woman had things she did her man provided and loved his family but she did task like making sure her family was clothed, loved, a feed, and they werent talking bad about there mom either they praised her. Ifyou asked your kids the truth without getting mad would they say your a good wife or mother. Don't get mad at them work on yourself to become better material.!! Would he say that you are his bone the material he was looking for to make a wife. Would he say no she is not wife material that you were a hoe, or had no qualities of a wife, hung around to many men, partied to much, never came home, couldnt cook, wouldnt be a good mom, wouldnt want to bring you to meet his parents. Would he be able to say she is wife material?

A Wife is Just not a TRophy

trophy
a cup or other decorative object awarded as a prize for a victory or success.


1 Peter 3:3-4
 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— 4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.


Yes trophys mean you have won something good once you have a trophy it just sits there and looks good.! Outward appearance fades we get old. Are your qualities more than just looking good? What are your inner qualities that make you stand out? Ruth was noticed by her boaz because she didnt just sit back and look good. He noticed her because he saw the things that she did. So you look good today and tomorrow and the next day congradulations you can get dressed.( not to be rude) My little sister can get dressed and look nice. So now what? This is the reality that we live in. Yes i want to be shown off by my man but I want my man to be able to say she has qualities that are deeper than just her looks. And Not to just be someones piece of their five year plan just to say I have a wife but to be able to grow together and have fun together and to keep the love going after you have won the trophy. She is an all around woman! I want his parents to know that his friends to know that. I want them to be able to say man bro thats your wife she's awesome! 

Can others Say Your Wife Material? 

Ruth 3:9-11
9 And he said, “Who are you?”So she answered, “I am Ruth, your maidservant. Take your maidservant under your wing,[a] for you are a close relative.”10 Then he said, “Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter! For you have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning, in that you did not go after young men, whether poor or rich. 11 And now, my daughter, do not fear. I will do for you all that you request, for all the people of my town know that you are a virtuous woman.

Its one thing to think to yourself that you are wife material but does everyone around you think the same? When Boaz married Ruth he said everyone knows your a virtuous woman. Everyone knew she was the type of woman a man was looking for. Ruth was hard working, dedicated, virtious, loving,caring, unique she stood out. We all think we could be a good wife. Yet if you actually became a wife would it be true. I mean lets be honest i use to think i was ready to be married and be a wife. And all the guys around me treated me like a whore but i also treated myself like a whore. I was far from what others saw me as but i carried myself that way. I have men now a days who tell me your the type of woman who a man is looking for a wife. Because they see my qualities because i carry myself better. No i am no wife but im working on myself. Can others say your Wife Material?


If He Proposes or Marry's you He thinks Your Wife Material! 
Esther 2:17 The king loved Esther more than all the other women, and she obtained grace and favor in his sight more than all the virgins; so he set the royal crown upon her head and made her queen instead of Vashti. 

The king made Esther his wife because he loved her over all the other woman. Meaning she had the qualities he was looking for. If a man doesnt choose you that doesnt mean your not fit to be a wife. It could your qualities just don't suit his. Vashti wasnt working out for the king because they didn't agree. Two people can't walk together if they dont agree. Yet Esther and the king did. So don't just give up just because one man doesnt see your qualities doesn't mean someone else wont. But until then keep working on yourself to become a better woman who will become someones wife. And when he proposes and you know he what your looking for IN A MAN SAY YES! Say I Do! And be that Wife Material!