Caught cheating
Caught cheating..
a·dul·ter·y
voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse.
John 8:1-4
Jesus went unto the mount of Olives. And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
This woman was caught in the act of Adultery. They never talk about the man or the woman who was getting cheated on but who ever they were they must have known. The pain of being cheated on is horrible.. Especially when you catch someone in the act and they never thought you would find out. It hurts even more when you love them and they tell you they are happy when all the while they are cheating.. ( Been there) Its painful! How do you act in situations like that twice in a two year span i walked up to two people cheating on me. My reaction was calm but Inside i wanted to explode I handled myself nicely compared to what I wanted to do.( help me lord) I know Hosea must have had a hard time because his wife played the HArlot though he loved her he had to watch as she cheated on him. How could you are the only words that flood my mind yet for me i understand that it must have been simple for them to cheat because they were never fully committed in the first place.
Love me With Your Whole Heart!!
whole
all of; entire.
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
Love me with your whole heart. God speaks about with all thine heart. How can you love halfheartedly? How can you trust halfheartedly? How can you believe halfheartedly? Its either you love or you don't you trust or you wont you believe in God or you don't. Its all or nothing!James1: 8 A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. When you don't know what you want you are unstable you can't make a choice on what you really want. Well its either love me or don't but if i have to fight for you over the love of another female im sorry its not even worth it because I dont want to love half of you knowing i will never have your heart. I want to have all of your love and know that like The woman in songs of Solomon saidHe is mine and I am his. She didn't say he is hers and mine and we have to share while I am his and being faithful while he or she cheats. If your going to love me half halfheartedly don't love me at all. Because I want to know I have your heart your whole heart!
Rachael and LEah
Genesis 29:8 And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter
Genesis 27:31 And when the Lord saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb: but Rachel was barren.
Rachael was loved and LEah was hated. It is a sad example! Jacob had two wive one he didn't even want to marry. Yet got tricked into marrying. Yet he loved Rachael not half halfheartedly but with his whole heart. Leah was hated hate is not love, Jacob didn't have love for Leah because his love was for Rachael. When you love someone you give them all your love and it doesnt matter about someone elses love because your loving that person! See you to understand why you love someone to keep the love growing even when times get hard. Because those hard times will pass so you can get thru them. See even though Jacob had married LEad Rachael knew she was loved because it was never his intentions he was tricked. Yet their love stood the truest test getting past him having this other wife. Cheating can be hard being the other person can be hard. Some people can get past cheating a move forward in their relationships and some can't. It takes alot of fighting past all the hurt that was caused. PAst the thoughts of wondering well how could they?
Reconciliation after an Affair
Hosea 3:1
Then said the Lord unto me, Go yet, love a woman beloved of her friend, yet an adulteress, according to the love of the Lord toward the children of Israel, who look to other gods, and love flagons of wine.
rec·on·cil·i·a·tion
the restoration of friendly relations.
Some people try to work things out even after an affair. Reconciliation is not always easy it takes time, it takes work and it hurts. The trust is not all their you have to regain someones trust, they must be willing to truly forgive you and let go of the pain that you caused. You two must be willing to work together to try to make things work. Reconciliation is restoration of something. and anything being restored it takes time. It does not happen over night you have to work for it. IF you are not willing to work for it then move forward in your life and carry but if you are willing to want restoration and reconciliation then prepare for a some hard work but eventually it will be worth it when it is all said and done
a·dul·ter·y
voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse.
John 8:1-4
Jesus went unto the mount of Olives. And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
This woman was caught in the act of Adultery. They never talk about the man or the woman who was getting cheated on but who ever they were they must have known. The pain of being cheated on is horrible.. Especially when you catch someone in the act and they never thought you would find out. It hurts even more when you love them and they tell you they are happy when all the while they are cheating.. ( Been there) Its painful! How do you act in situations like that twice in a two year span i walked up to two people cheating on me. My reaction was calm but Inside i wanted to explode I handled myself nicely compared to what I wanted to do.( help me lord) I know Hosea must have had a hard time because his wife played the HArlot though he loved her he had to watch as she cheated on him. How could you are the only words that flood my mind yet for me i understand that it must have been simple for them to cheat because they were never fully committed in the first place.
Love me With Your Whole Heart!!
whole
all of; entire.
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
Love me with your whole heart. God speaks about with all thine heart. How can you love halfheartedly? How can you trust halfheartedly? How can you believe halfheartedly? Its either you love or you don't you trust or you wont you believe in God or you don't. Its all or nothing!James1: 8 A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. When you don't know what you want you are unstable you can't make a choice on what you really want. Well its either love me or don't but if i have to fight for you over the love of another female im sorry its not even worth it because I dont want to love half of you knowing i will never have your heart. I want to have all of your love and know that like The woman in songs of Solomon saidHe is mine and I am his. She didn't say he is hers and mine and we have to share while I am his and being faithful while he or she cheats. If your going to love me half halfheartedly don't love me at all. Because I want to know I have your heart your whole heart!
Rachael and LEah
Genesis 29:8 And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter
Genesis 27:31 And when the Lord saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb: but Rachel was barren.
Rachael was loved and LEah was hated. It is a sad example! Jacob had two wive one he didn't even want to marry. Yet got tricked into marrying. Yet he loved Rachael not half halfheartedly but with his whole heart. Leah was hated hate is not love, Jacob didn't have love for Leah because his love was for Rachael. When you love someone you give them all your love and it doesnt matter about someone elses love because your loving that person! See you to understand why you love someone to keep the love growing even when times get hard. Because those hard times will pass so you can get thru them. See even though Jacob had married LEad Rachael knew she was loved because it was never his intentions he was tricked. Yet their love stood the truest test getting past him having this other wife. Cheating can be hard being the other person can be hard. Some people can get past cheating a move forward in their relationships and some can't. It takes alot of fighting past all the hurt that was caused. PAst the thoughts of wondering well how could they?
Reconciliation after an Affair
Hosea 3:1
Then said the Lord unto me, Go yet, love a woman beloved of her friend, yet an adulteress, according to the love of the Lord toward the children of Israel, who look to other gods, and love flagons of wine.
rec·on·cil·i·a·tion
the restoration of friendly relations.
Some people try to work things out even after an affair. Reconciliation is not always easy it takes time, it takes work and it hurts. The trust is not all their you have to regain someones trust, they must be willing to truly forgive you and let go of the pain that you caused. You two must be willing to work together to try to make things work. Reconciliation is restoration of something. and anything being restored it takes time. It does not happen over night you have to work for it. IF you are not willing to work for it then move forward in your life and carry but if you are willing to want restoration and reconciliation then prepare for a some hard work but eventually it will be worth it when it is all said and done
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