Enjoying Your Singleness
Their are so many people who don't know how to enjoy their singleness. They believe they need a man or a woman to complete them or make them whole. In reality God is the only one who can complete you and make you whole inside yourself, If you can't be happy by yourself how can someone make you happy, if you can't love yourself how can someone love you, relationships are give and take. Ive been sick my whole life so a relationship has always been about me and my needs and the fact that im sick, and so and so didn't love me, i need love, and my abusive habits that i picked up on the way. Not until I learned that I can be loved and learned for myself how to love me, and overcome my inner issue did I learn that I can better love. Yet God helped me conquer those issues. We are always going to have issue's yet sometimes we have issue's on the inside of us that over take us and we don't even know that they are their. For me I always watched my mother need a man! So i thought I needed a man at 21 I took a year off from dating so that i knew for myself that It wasnt a man that I needed that I could enjoy my life single. I was actually never going to date again until God told me he wanted to give me a family and even with him saying that I wrestled with actually wanting that in my life. So I learned how to enjoy my singleness without needing someone else. From open mics, to movies, to going out to eat, learning to enjoy myself, getting to know who I am first. Then I kearned how to date God took God out of a date and he end up showing off and payed for my whole day and showed me how much he loved me. I learned to enjoy me and understand who God created me to be!
Waiting For The One!
Genesis 29:18
And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter.
Waiting can be so hard especially when you feel ready to give your love away. Yet there is no one to give it away to. I've learned how to enjoy my singleness and love me some me. Now God has shown me this I've never really loved, loved someone before. Ive never been able to love anyone in my life or wanted to give my love away because ive always been afraid of love. Ive been wanting love and to give my love away yet never thought it was possible. Never Embraced it. Now that I can I still have to wait. I don't mind waiting though. Will I go searching out in the world for someone no . Will I wait on God yes! I have got purnt touching the hot stove to many times. I have learned anything that is really worth something to you is worth the wait. Not being someone who waited before I ruined myself. The other day when at work this man waited 20 minutes just to get what he wanted he wanted it so bad that the wait didn't matter how long he waited! Verse the others who came in and had to wait but didn't think what they were waiting for was worth it. When you want anything bad enough the wait usually doesn't matter. Jacob loved Rachel and didn't matter how long it took, or how much work it took he wasn't going to give up until he got her waited 14 years just for one woman!
So Ill Wait For You
No longer will i subject my body to society’s image of love
Throw what God gave me away for a quick moment of pleasure
No longer will I let the media tell me that it’s okay to stop roll and wiggle with it or bend over to the front and touch my toes
What do I look like giving myself away to you when you’re not even guaranteed to be here?
Not even that but I do not belong to myself for I belong to God
So I’ll wait for what God has made for me
Because he has a plan
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
So why you trying to take things into your own hands
Only to shatter yourself into a million piece try to force something together that you know won’t work
But you do it anyways
Your worth is more than precious rubies
So stop treating yourself like stone
Because you will turn yourself cold hard and bitter
JUST WAIT
I was told anything worth having is worth waiting for
So if they can’t wait their not worth having
Just wait
For I will No longer subject my body to society’s image of love
Giving myself away for that few moments a pleasure
Because I know my worth
So ill wait
Cuz im NOT that girl the type who throws it all away
the type girl who will lose it all just to make him stay
To sacrifice my worth for just a simple moment
That id rather please God then Man
bcuz my Father dont condone it
Self respect in this world is fading fast
Todays definition of female dignity is half naked booty shaking dancing for that cash
cuz when i turn on my tv & all i see
is a hiked up skirt clevage & a Big ol Booty
oh how sad that our females define wearn nothin as beauty
[[Degrading]] theirselves to get a man
listen to someone say well if you wont the next woman can
well i put my foot down i dont care if you think im crazy
i rather not degrade myself to be less of a lady.
So ill wait
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.1 Corinthians 6:18
Finding The One!
Proverbs 18:22
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
Have you ever gone to go find something. Sometime's it takes a long time to find something especially the right something that you need/ want. The man is to find a wife. Now this doesnt mean that a man should go out like "hey go out and try ever woman around "but it means that if you find a wife it is a good thing. The prince in the princess and the pea wanted a princess and gave her a test to see if he had the right girl. He was out to find the right girl. God never created man to be alone he says that in Genesis.
Genesis 2:18
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
So because it's not good for man to be alone he created a help meet for the man so that he can have a companion of his own to share his life with as his wife. Someone who will help the man with getting through life and the things that come in life. You think about the king as he picked Esther to be his wife she received favor in the kings sight over all the other woman. He had a choice of woman yet he choose Esther. She would be his bride!
Esther 2:17
17 And the king loved Esther above all the women, and she obtained grace and favour in his sight more than all the virgins; so that he set the royal crown upon her head, and made her queen instead of Vashti.
Becoming One!
Genesis 2:24
This can be so hard. Compromise is such a hard word in relationships sometimes. You have two different people trying to work together to build in unity. They are coming together to take two different lifestyles that where raised two different ways and bring them together. Easier said then done. Not an impossible task but one that can take sometime! The woman and the man are leaving their parents to create their own household unit.
Ephesians 5:22-33
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Wives you are for your husband just as husbands you are for your wives when you give yourself to your husband you are to submit to his headship over the household. Just as husbands are to love their wives just as Christ loved and died for the church! Jesus gave himself for the church and when a man marries a woman he is saying I am giving myself to this woman like Christ died for the church! So they could cleave together and become one!
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